You hire a Realtor to help you figure out where you are going to live.
So it can be frustrating when you ask a perfectly reasonable question and your Realtor suddenly starts answering very carefully.
Sometimes the issue is not that I cannot help you.
I need you to ask me a different question.
Fair Housing rules are there for a reason. Real estate has a history of people being directed toward or away from neighborhoods because someone else decided where they belonged.
The decision about where you belong should be yours.
The Difference Is Who Is Making the Decision
Suppose you tell me:
“I’m Catholic. Find me a Catholic neighborhood.”
That puts me in the position of deciding where people of a particular faith belong.
Instead, you might tell me:
“This is my church. I want to be able to walk there. My cousin lives here. I need to be near a train, and I would like a walkable main street.”
Now you have given me specific places and practical criteria I can use in your home search.
The same principle applies when something like LGBTQ community resources, healthcare, transportation, family, cultural connections, or other parts of your life matter to you.
You decide what matters.
Then tell me what you need your home to be near.
Safety Questions Can Also Become Research Questions
Instead of relying on somebody else’s opinion that a neighborhood is “safe” or “unsafe,” look at objective information.
One approach I often suggest is starting with crime information for the place where you live now.
You already know how you feel living there.
That gives you a familiar baseline you can compare with an area you are considering.
Use reliable sources, look at the actual information, and decide what it means for you.
That Is Where AI Can Help
AI can be a useful research tool for questions like these.
You can use it to help find:
- Houses of worship near transportation
- LGBTQ organizations or healthcare resources
- Official crime-information sources
- Later-life housing options
- Healthcare and community resources
- Places that need to be within a certain distance of your home
Then verify important information with the organization responsible for it.
I created a free guide through Just Ask Jess with copy-and-paste AI prompts to help you get started.
Get the free AI Research Guide
See also: How AI Can Help You Ask Your Realtor Better Questions
Then bring what you learn back to your Realtor.
Don’t tell me what kind of people you want to live around.
Tell me what places you need your home to be near, what you need your day-to-day life to look like, and what’s important to you.
Give me that, and I have something I can work with.
If you are preparing for a home search, start with the Buying a Home resource.
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